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Hais lus nruj me ntsis, kev cob qhia tus dev tsis yog ua phem rau nws.Ib yam li ntawd, cia tus dev ua txhua yam nws xav tau tsis yog kev hlub tus dev tiag.Cov dev xav tau kev taw qhia ruaj khov thiab tuaj yeem ntxhov siab yog tias tsis qhia tias yuav ua li cas rau ntau lub sijhawm.
1. Txawm hais tias lub npe yog los cob qhia tus dev, lub hom phiaj ntawm txhua qhov kev cob qhia yog qhia tus tswv kom sib txuas lus nrog tus dev zoo dua.Tom qab tag nrho, peb IQ thiab kev nkag siab yog siab dua lawv, yog li peb yuav tsum to taub thiab hloov lawv.Yog tias koj tsis qhia lossis sib tham tsis zoo, tsis txhob cia siab tias tus dev yuav sim hloov koj, nws tsuas xav tias koj tsis yog tus thawj coj zoo thiab yuav tsis hwm koj.
2. Kev cob qhia dev yog nyob ntawm kev sib txuas lus zoo.Cov dev tsis tuaj yeem nkag siab qhov peb hais, tab sis kev sib txuas lus zoo yuav tsum xyuas kom meej tias tus tswv lub siab nyiam thiab cov kev xav tau raug xa mus rau tus dev, uas yog hais tias, tus dev yuav tsum paub seb tus cwj pwm ntawm nws tus kheej yog qhov tseeb lossis tsis yog, yog li ntawd kev cob qhia. tuaj yeem muaj txiaj ntsig.Yog koj ntaus nws thiab cem nws, tab sis nws tsis paub tias nws ua txhaum dab tsi, tsuas yog ua rau nws ntshai koj, thiab nws tus cwj pwm yuav tsis raug kho.Yog xav paub ntxiv txog kev sib txuas lus, thov txuas ntxiv mus nyeem hauv qab no.
3. Qhov uas suav nrog yog tias kev cob qhia dev yuav tsum muaj sijhawm ntev, thiab ib yam nkaus, rov ua dua, thiab lo lus zais yog qhov tsim nyog thaum lub sijhawm kawm.Piv txwv li, yog tias koj cob qhia tus dev kom zaum, koj tsuas yog yuav tsum ua ib zaug xwb.Kuv vam tias nws tuaj yeem kawm tau hauv ib hnub, thiab nws tsis tuaj yeem pib mloog lus rau hnub tom qab;Siv tus password no.Yog tias tam sim ntawd hloov mus rau "tus me nyuam zaum" tag kis, nws yuav tsis nkag siab.Yog hais tias nws hloov dua thiab dua, nws yuav tsis meej pem thiab yuav tsis muaj peev xwm kawm tau qhov kev ua no;tib yam nkaus xwb tuaj yeem kawm tau tom qab rov ua dua, thiab nws yuav tsum muaj zog ntxiv tom qab kawm.Yog tias koj kawm zaum thiab tsis siv nws ntau zaus, tus dev yuav hnov qab;tus dev yuav tsis kos inferences los ntawm ib qho piv txwv, yog li lub scene tseem ceeb heev nyob rau hauv ntau rooj plaub.Ntau tus dev kawm ua raws li cov lus txib hauv tsev, tab sis lawv tsis tas yuav nkag siab tias tib lo lus txib yuav siv tau rau txhua qhov xwm txheej thaum lawv tawm mus thiab hloov qhov chaw sab nraum zoov.
4. Raws li Tshooj 2 thiab 3, nws yog qhov ua tau zoo tshaj plaws kom muaj txiaj ntsig thiab kev rau txim.Yog koj hais yog lawm, koj yuav tau txais nqi zog, thiab yog koj ua tsis yog, koj yuav raug txim.Kev rau txim tuaj yeem suav nrog kev ntaus, tab sis kev ntaus nruj thiab kev ntaus nrig tsis pom zoo.Yog tias koj pheej ntaus, koj yuav pom tias tus dev qhov kev tawm tsam rau kev ntaus yog txhim kho ib hnub dhau ib hnub, thiab thaum kawg muaj ib hnub koj yuav pom tias txawm koj ntaus npaum li cas los nws yuav tsis ua haujlwm.Thiab qhov kev ntaus yuav tsum tau ua thaum tus dev paub tias vim li cas nws raug ntaus, thiab tus dev uas tsis tau nkag siab tias yog vim li cas nws raug ntaus yuav ntshai tus tswv, thiab nws tus cwj pwm yuav nkag siab thiab ntshai.Cov ntsiab lus yog: tshwj tsis yog tias koj ntes lub hnab ntawm qhov chaw thaum tus dev ua yuam kev, nws tuaj yeem ua rau tus dev paub meej tias nws tau ua yuam kev yog li nws raug ntaus, thiab txhaj tshuaj hnyav heev.Nws tsis ua haujlwm zoo li cov neeg feem coob xav.Kev ntaus tus dev tsis pom zoo!Kev ntaus tus dev tsis pom zoo!Kev ntaus tus dev tsis pom zoo!
5. Kev cob qhia yog nyob ntawm qhov chaw uas tus dev hwm tus tswv txoj kev coj noj coj ua.Kuv ntseeg tias txhua tus tau hnov txog txoj kev xav tias "cov dev tau zoo heev thaum muab lawv lub qhov ntswg rau ntawm lub ntsej muag".Yog tias tus dev xav tias tus tswv tsis zoo rau nws, kev cob qhia yuav tsis muaj txiaj ntsig.
6. Gouzi lub IQ tsis siab li ntawd, tsis txhob cia siab ntau dhau.Gouzi txoj kev xav yog qhov yooj yim heev: ib tus cwj pwm tshwj xeeb - tau txais kev tawm tswv yim (zoo lossis tsis zoo) - rov ua dua thiab ua rau qhov kev xav tob tob - thiab thaum kawg ua tiav nws.Rau txim rau tej yam tsis ncaj ncees lawm thiab qhia qhov tseeb ua nyob rau hauv tib lub scene kom ua tau zoo.Tsis tas yuav muaj kev xav li "kuv tus dev yog hma, kuv kho nws zoo thiab nws tseem tom kuv", lossis tib kab lus, tus dev tsis ntse txaus kom nkag siab tias yog koj kho nws zoo, nws muaj. hwm koj..Tus dev kev hwm yog ntau dua raws li txoj cai tsim los ntawm tus tswv thiab kev qhia tsim nyog.
7. Kev taug kev thiab kev tsis sib haum xeeb tuaj yeem daws teeb meem kev coj cwj pwm feem ntau, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv cov txiv neej dev.
Txawm hais tias lub npe yog los cob qhia tus dev, lub hom phiaj ntawm txhua qhov kev cob qhia yog qhia tus tswv kom sib txuas lus nrog tus dev zoo dua.Tom qab tag nrho, peb IQ thiab kev nkag siab yog siab dua lawv, yog li peb yuav tsum to taub thiab hloov lawv.Yog tias koj tsis qhia lossis sib tham tsis zoo, tsis txhob cia siab tias tus dev yuav sim hloov koj, nws tsuas xav tias koj tsis yog tus thawj coj zoo thiab yuav tsis hwm koj.
Kev cob qhia dev yog nyob ntawm kev sib txuas lus zoo.Cov dev tsis tuaj yeem nkag siab qhov peb hais, tab sis kev sib txuas lus zoo yuav tsum xyuas kom meej tias tus tswv lub siab nyiam thiab cov kev xav tau raug xa mus rau tus dev, uas yog hais tias, tus dev yuav tsum paub seb tus cwj pwm ntawm nws tus kheej yog qhov tseeb lossis tsis yog, yog li ntawd kev cob qhia. tuaj yeem muaj txiaj ntsig.Yog koj ntaus nws thiab cem nws, tab sis nws tsis paub tias nws ua txhaum dab tsi, tsuas yog ua rau nws ntshai koj, thiab nws tus cwj pwm yuav tsis raug kho.Yog xav paub ntxiv txog kev sib txuas lus, thov txuas ntxiv mus nyeem hauv qab no.
Dab tsi uas suav nrog yog tias kev cob qhia dev yuav tsum tau ntev, thiab zoo li, rov ua dua, thiab lo lus zais yog qhov tsim nyog kiag li thaum kawm.Piv txwv li, yog tias koj cob qhia tus dev kom zaum, koj tsuas yog yuav tsum ua ib zaug xwb.Kuv vam tias nws tuaj yeem kawm tau hauv ib hnub, thiab nws tsis tuaj yeem pib mloog lus rau hnub tom qab;Siv tus password no.Yog tias tam sim ntawd hloov mus rau "tus me nyuam zaum" tag kis, nws yuav tsis nkag siab.Yog hais tias nws hloov dua thiab dua, nws yuav tsis meej pem thiab yuav tsis muaj peev xwm kawm tau qhov kev ua no;tib yam nkaus xwb tuaj yeem kawm tau tom qab rov ua dua, thiab nws yuav tsum muaj zog ntxiv tom qab kawm.Yog tias koj kawm zaum thiab tsis siv nws ntau zaus, tus dev yuav hnov qab;tus dev yuav tsis kos inferences los ntawm ib qho piv txwv, yog li lub scene tseem ceeb heev nyob rau hauv ntau rooj plaub.Ntau tus dev kawm ua raws li cov lus txib hauv tsev, tab sis lawv tsis tas yuav nkag siab tias tib lo lus txib yuav siv tau rau txhua qhov xwm txheej thaum lawv tawm mus thiab hloov qhov chaw sab nraum zoov.
4. Raws li Tshooj 2 thiab 3, nws yog qhov ua tau zoo tshaj plaws kom muaj txiaj ntsig thiab kev rau txim.Yog koj hais yog lawm, koj yuav tau txais nqi zog, thiab yog koj ua tsis yog, koj yuav raug txim.Kev rau txim tuaj yeem suav nrog kev ntaus, tab sis kev ntaus nruj thiab kev ntaus nrig tsis pom zoo.Yog tias koj pheej ntaus, koj yuav pom tias tus dev qhov kev tawm tsam rau kev ntaus yog txhim kho ib hnub dhau ib hnub, thiab thaum kawg muaj ib hnub koj yuav pom tias txawm koj ntaus npaum li cas los nws yuav tsis ua haujlwm.Thiab qhov kev ntaus yuav tsum tau ua thaum tus dev paub tias vim li cas nws raug ntaus, thiab tus dev uas tsis tau nkag siab tias yog vim li cas nws raug ntaus yuav ntshai tus tswv, thiab nws tus cwj pwm yuav nkag siab thiab ntshai.Cov ntsiab lus yog: tshwj tsis yog tias koj ntes lub hnab ntawm qhov chaw thaum tus dev ua yuam kev, nws tuaj yeem ua rau tus dev paub meej tias nws tau ua yuam kev yog li nws raug ntaus, thiab txhaj tshuaj hnyav heev.Nws tsis ua haujlwm zoo li cov neeg feem coob xav.Kev ntaus tus dev tsis pom zoo!Kev ntaus tus dev tsis pom zoo!Kev ntaus tus dev tsis pom zoo!
5. Kev cob qhia yog nyob ntawm qhov chaw uas tus dev hwm tus tswv txoj kev coj noj coj ua.Kuv ntseeg tias txhua tus tau hnov txog txoj kev xav tias "cov dev tau zoo heev thaum muab lawv lub qhov ntswg rau ntawm lub ntsej muag".Yog tias tus dev xav tias tus tswv tsis zoo rau nws, kev cob qhia yuav tsis muaj txiaj ntsig.
6. Gouzi lub IQ tsis siab li ntawd, tsis txhob cia siab ntau dhau.Gouzi txoj kev xav yog qhov yooj yim heev: ib tus cwj pwm tshwj xeeb - tau txais kev tawm tswv yim (zoo lossis tsis zoo) - rov ua dua thiab ua rau qhov kev xav tob tob - thiab thaum kawg ua tiav nws.Rau txim rau tej yam tsis ncaj ncees lawm thiab qhia qhov tseeb ua nyob rau hauv tib lub scene kom ua tau zoo.Tsis tas yuav muaj kev xav li "kuv tus dev yog hma, kuv kho nws zoo thiab nws tseem tom kuv", lossis tib kab lus, tus dev tsis ntse txaus kom nkag siab tias yog koj kho nws zoo, nws muaj. hwm koj..Tus dev kev hwm yog ntau dua raws li txoj cai tsim los ntawm tus tswv thiab kev qhia tsim nyog.
7. Kev taug kev thiab kev tsis sib haum xeeb tuaj yeem daws teeb meem kev coj cwj pwm feem ntau, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv cov txiv neej dev.
8. Thov txhob txiav txim tso tus dev tseg vim nws tsis mloog lus.Ua tib zoo xav txog nws, koj puas tau ua tiav tag nrho cov luag haujlwm uas koj yuav tsum muaj ua tus tswv?Koj puas tau qhia nws zoo?Los yog koj xav kom nws txawj ntse heev koj tsis tas yuav qhia nws tias nws yuav cia li kawm koj nyiam?Koj puas paub koj tus dev tiag?puas yog nws zoo siab Koj puas zoo rau nws?Nws tsis yog hais tias pub mis rau nws, da dej thiab siv nyiaj rau nws yog qhov zoo rau nws.Thov txhob cia nws nyob ib leeg hauv tsev ntev dhau lawm.Tawm mus taug kev tus dev tsis txaus tso quav.Nws kuj xav tau kev tawm dag zog thiab phooj ywg.Thov tsis txhob xav tias "Kuv tus dev yuav tsum ua siab ncaj thiab mloog lus, thiab nws yuav tsum raug ntaus los ntawm kuv".Yog tias koj xav kom hwm koj tus dev, koj kuj yuav tsum hwm nws cov kev xav tau yooj yim.
9. Thov tsis txhob xav tias koj tus dev hnyav dua lwm tus dev.Nws yog tus cwj pwm zoo thaum koj tawm mus.Qhov no yuav ntshai cov neeg hla dhau, thiab nws tseem yog thawj qhov laj thawj rau kev tsis sib haum xeeb ntawm tib neeg thiab dev.Tsis tas li ntawd, cov dev uas yooj yim rau bark los yog muaj tus cwj pwm nruj yog feem ntau ntxhov siab thiab nyob tsis tswm, uas tsis yog qhov ruaj khov thiab noj qab nyob zoo rau cov dev.Thov tsa koj tus dev ua kev zoo siab.Tsis txhob cia tus dev xav tias koj nyob ib leeg thiab tsis muaj kev pab vim yog tus tswv tsis muaj peev xwm, thiab tsis txhob ua teeb meem rau lwm tus.
10. Thov tsis txhob cia siab thiab thov ntau dhau ntawm Gouzi, thiab thov tsis txhob yws tias nws qias neeg, tsis mloog lus thiab tsis quav ntsej.Raws li tus tswv tsev dev, koj yuav tsum nkag siab: ua ntej, koj txiav txim siab khaws tus dev, thiab koj xaiv coj tus dev mus tsev, yog li koj yuav tsum fim nws qhov zoo thiab qhov phem ntawm tus tswv.Qhov thib ob, Gouzi yog Gouzi, koj tsis tuaj yeem thov nws zoo li tib neeg, thiab nws tsis tsim nyog xav kom nws ua raws li nws hais thaum nws tau qhia.Thib peb, yog tias tus dev tseem hluas, koj yuav tsum nkag siab tias nws tseem yog menyuam yaus, nws tseem tab tom tshawb nrhiav lub ntiaj teb thiab sim ua kom paub txog tus tswv, nws yog ib txwm ua rau nws khiav mus ncig thiab ua teeb meem vim nws tseem nyob. cov tub ntxhais hluas, koj thiab nws Kev Sib Tham kuj yog ib qho txheej txheem ntawm kev sib nkag siab thiab kev yoog raws.Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau xav kom nws paub koj ua tus tswv nyob rau ob peb hnub tom qab nws los txog tsev thiab nkag siab nws lub npe.Tag nrho cov nyob rau hauv tag nrho, qhov zoo ntawm tus aub ncaj qha qhia qhov zoo ntawm tus tswv.Lub sijhawm thiab kev kawm ntau dua koj muab rau tus dev, nws yuav ua tau zoo dua.
11. Thov tsis txhob coj tus cwj pwm txawv xws li kev npau taws thiab kev ntxhov siab, thaum cob qhia dev (vim li cas ho tsis tom qab qhia ntau zaus).Sim ua lub hom phiaj kom ua tau hauv kev cob qhia dev thiab sib tham txog qhov tseeb thaum lawv sawv.
12. Sim tiv thaiv tus cwj pwm tsis raug thiab coj tus cwj pwm kom raug ua ntej tus dev ua yuam kev.
13. Tib neeg hom lus uas tus dev tuaj yeem nkag siab tau muaj tsawg heev, yog li tom qab nws ua ib yam dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm, tus tswv teb tam sim ntawd thiab tuav (lub cev lus) yog qhov zoo dua li cov lus hais thiab kev cob qhia.Gouzi txoj kev xav yog tsom ntsoov rau tus cwj pwm thiab cov txiaj ntsig.Hauv Gouzi lub qhov muag, tag nrho nws cov yeeb yam yuav ua rau qee yam tshwm sim.Ntxiv mus, lub sij hawm rau cov dev kom mloog yog luv heev, yog li lub sij hawm tseem ceeb heev thaum muab nqi zog thiab rau txim.Hauv lwm lo lus, ua tus tswv, koj txhua qhov kev txav mus los yog kev tawm tswv yim thiab kev cob qhia rau tus dev tus cwj pwm.
Ua piv txwv yooj yim, thaum tus dev Ahua muaj 3 lub hlis, nws nyiam tom nws txhais tes.Txhua zaus nws hnia nws tus tswv F, F yuav hais tsis tau thiab kov Ahua nrog ib txhais tes, vam tias nws yuav tsum tsis txhob tom..F xav tias nws qhov kev cob qhia nyob hauv qhov chaw, nws hais tias tsis yog, thiab thawb Ah Hua mus, tab sis Ah Hua tseem kawm tsis tau, yog li nws ntxhov siab heev.
Qhov yuam kev ntawm tus cwj pwm no yog tus dev xav tias raug kov yog qhov khoom plig / ua si nrog nws, tab sis F qhov tshwm sim tam sim tom qab Ah Hua tom yog kov nws.Hauv lwm lo lus, tus dev yuav koom nrog tom = raug kov = raug nqi zog, yog li hauv nws lub siab tus tswv yog txhawb nqa tus cwj pwm tom.Tab sis tib lub sij hawm, F kuj tseem yuav tsis qhia cov lus qhia, thiab Ah Hua kuj nkag siab tias tsis muaj lus qhia txhais tau tias nws tau ua ib yam dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm.Yog li ntawd, Ahua xav tias tus tswv tau muab nqi zog rau nws tus kheej thaum nws hais tias nws tau ua ib yam dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm, yog li ntawd nws tsis tuaj yeem nkag siab tias qhov kev ua tom nws txhais tes yog qhov raug lossis tsis yog.
Post lub sij hawm: Dec-01-2023
